My bf and I have been dating for 2 years. During this time, everything has been smooth and okay. The only problem is that he loves me too much. Don’t get me wrong, I want to be loved but his is too much. He is always saying sorry or please and always trying to make me happy even if I don’t deserve it. I think he is weak in a way. Though he is handsome and a little bit well to do, how he behaves is strange.
For instance, about a month ago, he found out I have been flirting with few guys on Snapchat. I don’t like them, but I decided to flirt for the fun of it. He took my phone one day and found all those messages. What he did next was really shocking. He quickly took me out for an unplanned dinner.l and asked me whether he’s been doing things wrongly because of the messages he found. He literally begged me to stop talking to the boys and cried the whole night after our dinner. I mean, he wasn’t angry but rather thought it was his fault, who does that seriously? At the moment, I am kinda confused, why is he like that? Why can’t he be more of a man? Why can’t be get angry and talk harsh on me or something? I’m really confused, how can I get him to be man enough?