So during my university days i fell deeply, i mean deeply in love with this guy in school. I can boldly say he was my very true love. The problem was that, he was somewhat a villager. He was just off with my values and my point of view in most things. I remember using my pocket money to buy stuff for him i couldn’t even afford for myself. The feelings was just crazy. Its was like i liked him but i knew he was also not good for me. So i sort of gave him some mixed signals which he ended up marrying some other lady with the excuse that i didnt want to sleep with him. And that this said particular lady got pregnant the reason for marrying her. Fast forward Just around that point i lost my dad and i was so mad so i sort of naively cursed him.. in my words “God will purnish him” 20years down the lane we reconnected and he is soo miserable to the point of even asking me for money with no shame. This is worrying me and i keep wondering if i am the cause of his problems