So why does tribalism prevail in our society like that? My dad just told me I shouldn’t marry an Ewe lady and I just don’t understand. My gf is Ewe and we’ve dated for 4 years now. I don’t know what to tell her. I really love her but I can’t just go against my dad’s words. My gf can leave me at anytime but my parents will not. I’m really confused and I don’t know what to do. I just don’t know why my dad is so persistent about this issue, I just don’t understand.