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				<title>harryking posted an update: So my dad is a pastor but I have lost trust in him. I [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/939/</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2025 18:41:16 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So my dad is a pastor but I have lost trust in him. I found some porn videos on his phone some time ago. I mean, why should a pastor have such videos on his phone. Someone who preaches against it and all. Like I don&#8217;t get it. I&#8217;m a girl and although I like porn, I didn’t expect it to be on my dad&#8217;s phone. I jut can&#8217;t imagine the kind of stuff he&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-939"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/939/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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				<title>samfine posted an update: So after the incident on campus, my dad is asking me to [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/937/</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2025 18:37:32 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So after the incident on campus, my dad is asking me to stop dating my SHS boyfriend. We haven&#8217;t had any quarrel or anything of that sort, but my dad wants me to stop dating my boyfriend. I mean, I don&#8217;t think I should do things based on what happened in someone’s else&#8217;s relationship. I love my guy and I just don&#8217;t know what to do. We&#8217;re in&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-937"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/937/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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				<title>lovelyme posted an update: Hear me out, I don't know if this feels right. I have [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/935/</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2025 03:03:17 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hear me out, I don&#8217;t know if this feels right. I have been having an affair with my sister&#8217;s husband for some months now. He approached me first. At the beginning I wasn&#8217;t comfortable with it, but seeing how my sister treats her, I had no choice but to give in. This man works so hard to provide for my sister and his little boy, yet, my&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-935"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/935/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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				<title>CINDYKAY posted an update: My best friend has been crushing on this guy for months [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/932/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2025 14:33:53 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My best friend has been crushing on this guy for months now. She talks about him all the time, saying how he’s her dream man and how she plans to shoot her shot. The problem is, I know him too well. Back in SHS, we had a thing (nothing serious), but enough for me to know he’s not the great guy she thinks he is.</p>
<p>I’ve tried hinting that maybe&hellip;</p>
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				<title>Pokuaa posted an update: Every Sunday, I’m supposed to go to church with my aunt. [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/931/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2025 14:22:59 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every Sunday, I’m supposed to go to church with my aunt. She’s a devout Christian and insists that everyone in the house goes to service. The thing is, I haven’t actually been to church in months. Instead, I use that time to hang out with friends at East Legon. We drink, eat, and talk until it’s time to go home.</p>
<p>When I get back, I always&hellip;</p>
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				<title>ANNA_IN_HIDING posted an update: Last year, I borrowed GHS 500 from a friend. I told her [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/930/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2025 10:40:49 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last year, I borrowed GHS 500 from a friend. I told her it was for my mum’s medical bills, but the truth is, I used the money to buy a dress and shoes for a party. The outfit was stunning, and I got so many compliments that night, but I couldn’t fully enjoy myself knowing I’d lied to get it. <span>Since then, my friend hasn’t brought up the&hellip;</span></p>
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				<title>bigbruce posted an update: I have been masturbating for 12 years now. Yh I know, but [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/929/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2025 09:56:36 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been masturbating for 12 years now. Yh I know, but I seem not to know how to stop it. It started when I found porn on my dad&#8217;s phone. I enjoyed watching it though and started stroking myself. It happened e when I was in class 4 and now I’m in my final year of University. It&#8217;s embarrassing but I enjoy it a lot. I&#8217;m a Christian by the way&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-929"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/929/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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				<title>hardtrith posted an update: We had a deal… no strings attached. That was the whole [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/927/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2025 09:47:07 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We had a deal… no strings attached. That was the whole point with Afia. Just fun, no<br />
drama, no expectations. It worked for months. She’d call, I’d show up, and we’d<br />
leave it at that. Then I met Ama. She wasn’t like Afia. She’s soft, caring, the kind of girl you want to bring home to your family. So, when things got serious with Ama, I cut it&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-927"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/927/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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				<title>Nun posted an update: 1) I stood at the altar, a vision in white, my heart full [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/883/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 22 Feb 2025 07:19:34 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1) I stood at the altar, a vision in white, my heart full of love and my future so bright. I felt invincible, wrapped in the warmth of my love for my partner. But as the years passed by, I started to see that our marriage was not all it was meant to be. We fought and we argued, as any couple would, but the love that we shared just wasn’t as&hellip;</p>
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				<title>rich posted an update: My Nigerian friend sent this to our group chat. Lemme [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/875/</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 09 Feb 2025 07:26:07 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My Nigerian friend sent this to our group chat. Lemme know your thoughts.</p>
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<p>  So, my mom threw this big family party for my dad&#8217;s 50th birthday last weekend. Everyone<br />
was there. cousins, uncles, the whole crew. It was going okay until my aunt, who&#8217;s always<br />
been a little dramatic, decided to &#8216;propose a toast.&#8221;.<br />
She got up, clinking her glass,&hellip;</p>
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				<title>Lynne posted an update: You know that saying, ‘Friends are the family you [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/871/</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 09 Feb 2025 07:21:21 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know that saying, ‘Friends are the family you choose’? Well, I chose wrong. My best<br />
friend and I have been inseparable for ten years. We’ve been through everything together.<br />
She’s the one person I thought I could always trust.<br />
But last week, I found out she was dating my ex. Not just any ex… the one who cheated on<br />
me, broke my heart,&hellip;</p>
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				<title>akyere posted an update: My sister’s getting married in two months, right? And [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/866/</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 09 Feb 2025 07:08:21 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My sister’s getting married in two months, right? And I’ve been her go-to for everything…<br />
dress shopping, vendors and co. She keeps saying how much she appreciates me and how<br />
I’m the ‘only person she can truly trust.’ Sweet, right?<br />
Well, yesterday, I was scrolling through her Pinterest boards to get ideas for her bachelorette<br />
party&hellip;</p>
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				<title>jaden posted an update: We had a deal… no strings attached. That was the whole [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/861/</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 09 Feb 2025 06:43:47 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We had a deal… no strings attached. That was the whole point with Afia. Just fun, no<br />
drama, no expectations. It worked for months. She’d call, I’d show up, and we’d<br />
leave it at that.<br />
Then I met Ama. She wasn’t like Afia. She’s soft, caring, the kind of girl you want to<br />
bring home to your family. So, when things got serious with Ama, I&hellip;</p>
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				<title>Ada posted an update: My best friend and I have been close since senior [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/856/</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 09 Feb 2025 06:29:18 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My best friend and I have been close since senior high school. She’s the kind of person who<br />
knows all my secrets, including the fact that I’ve been saving up to move out and start fresh<br />
in Takoradi. It’s been my dream for years, and she’s always hyped me up about it.<br />
Well, last week, she casually dropped into conversation that she’s moving&hellip;</p>
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				<title>Nun posted an update: I hit rock bottom one night, lying on the cold, hard [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/854/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 08 Feb 2025 09:04:42 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hit rock bottom one night, lying on the cold, hard ground, realizing how precious life is and how much I was wasting it. That moment was a wake-up call, a turning point. I&#8217;m ready to face my demons and heal from all the pain. I&#8217;m reaching out for help before my life goes down the drain. So here I am, with open arms, confessing my struggles&hellip;</p>
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				<title>Pun posted an update: I come from a family of drinkers; it's all I've [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/853/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 08 Feb 2025 08:59:13 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I come from a family of drinkers; it&#8217;s all I&#8217;ve ever known. Alcohol has been a constant presence in my life, shaping my actions and decisions. But now, I see the damage it&#8217;s done, the pain it&#8217;s caused. I&#8217;ve hurt the ones I love with my words, my actions, and my drunkenness. The guilt weighs heavily on my heart, and I can&#8217;t bear the thought&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-853"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/853/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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				<title>Munirq posted an update:  I thought I had it under control, just a few drinks [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/852/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 08 Feb 2025 08:53:32 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> I thought I had it under control, just a few drinks to unwind after a long day. But now, I can&#8217;t go a single day without it. My hands shake, my thoughts are scattered, and the bottle has become my constant companion. My friends see me laughing, having fun, but they don&#8217;t understand the turmoil inside. Deep within, I&#8217;m screaming for help,&hellip;</p>
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				<title>Oliv posted an update: 
I used to be a social drinker, enjoying a drink or two [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/851/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 08 Feb 2025 08:27:17 +0000</pubDate>

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I used to be a social drinker, enjoying a drink or two with friends. But somewhere along the line, I lost control. Now, I drink alone, hidden in the shadows, until my body can&#8217;t take it anymore. I&#8217;ve been to rehab, tried to break free, but I always fall back into the same trap. The fear of losing my life to this addiction haunts me every day.&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-851"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/851/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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				<title>ANNA_IN_HIDING posted an update: This guy and I had been chatting on Instagram for weeks. [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/850/</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 07 Feb 2025 19:11:10 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This guy and I had been chatting on Instagram for weeks. He was sweet, always hyping me up in my DMs, and seemed like the kind of guy who’d take you seriously. One evening, he invited me over to his place in Labone, saying he wanted to cook for me. I was impressed cuz most guys would just suggest takeout. <span>When I got there, the dinner was&hellip;</span></p>
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				<title>Pokuaa posted an update: Every Sunday, I’m supposed to go to church with my aunt. [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/849/</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 07 Feb 2025 13:34:59 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every Sunday, I’m supposed to go to church with my aunt. She’s a devout Christian and insists that everyone in the house goes to service. The thing is, I haven’t actually been to church in months. Instead, I use that time to hang out with friends at East Legon. We drink, eat, and talk until it’s time to go home.</p>
<p>When I get back, I always&hellip;</p>
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