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				<title>lefla posted an update: I don't know but I'm a little bit anxious about life. [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/943/</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2025 18:46:44 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know but I&#8217;m a little bit anxious about life. So I&#8217;m doing my NSS in one company here in Accra and I know they will not pick me after the service and all which has left me scared a little. I feel so uncertain about my life and future. Is like I don&#8217;t know what I want to do anymore. I read History in the university but seriously I&hellip;</p>
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				<title>kofibee posted an update: There is this girl in my church I really like. She is [&#133;]</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2025 18:43:52 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is this girl in my church I really like. She is calm, sweet, God fearing and very beautiful. The promise, she comes from a rich home and I don&#8217;t, which is scaring me. I know I shouldn&#8217;t be saying that though but I don&#8217;t think her family will accept a masion. She is a lecturer at one private university in the country. Though we are&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-941"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/941/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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				<title>harryking posted an update: So my dad is a pastor but I have lost trust in him. I [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/939/</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2025 18:41:16 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So my dad is a pastor but I have lost trust in him. I found some porn videos on his phone some time ago. I mean, why should a pastor have such videos on his phone. Someone who preaches against it and all. Like I don&#8217;t get it. I&#8217;m a girl and although I like porn, I didn’t expect it to be on my dad&#8217;s phone. I jut can&#8217;t imagine the kind of stuff he&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-939"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/939/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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				<title>samfine posted an update: So after the incident on campus, my dad is asking me to [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/937/</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2025 18:37:32 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So after the incident on campus, my dad is asking me to stop dating my SHS boyfriend. We haven&#8217;t had any quarrel or anything of that sort, but my dad wants me to stop dating my boyfriend. I mean, I don&#8217;t think I should do things based on what happened in someone’s else&#8217;s relationship. I love my guy and I just don&#8217;t know what to do. We&#8217;re in&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-937"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/937/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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				<title>lovelyme posted an update: Hear me out, I don't know if this feels right. I have [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/935/</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2025 03:03:17 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hear me out, I don&#8217;t know if this feels right. I have been having an affair with my sister&#8217;s husband for some months now. He approached me first. At the beginning I wasn&#8217;t comfortable with it, but seeing how my sister treats her, I had no choice but to give in. This man works so hard to provide for my sister and his little boy, yet, my&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-935"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/935/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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				<title>CINDYKAY posted an update: My best friend has been crushing on this guy for months [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/932/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2025 14:33:53 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My best friend has been crushing on this guy for months now. She talks about him all the time, saying how he’s her dream man and how she plans to shoot her shot. The problem is, I know him too well. Back in SHS, we had a thing (nothing serious), but enough for me to know he’s not the great guy she thinks he is.</p>
<p>I’ve tried hinting that maybe&hellip;</p>
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				<title>Pokuaa posted an update: Every Sunday, I’m supposed to go to church with my aunt. [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/931/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2025 14:22:59 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every Sunday, I’m supposed to go to church with my aunt. She’s a devout Christian and insists that everyone in the house goes to service. The thing is, I haven’t actually been to church in months. Instead, I use that time to hang out with friends at East Legon. We drink, eat, and talk until it’s time to go home.</p>
<p>When I get back, I always&hellip;</p>
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				<title>ANNA_IN_HIDING posted an update: Last year, I borrowed GHS 500 from a friend. I told her [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/930/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2025 10:40:49 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last year, I borrowed GHS 500 from a friend. I told her it was for my mum’s medical bills, but the truth is, I used the money to buy a dress and shoes for a party. The outfit was stunning, and I got so many compliments that night, but I couldn’t fully enjoy myself knowing I’d lied to get it. <span>Since then, my friend hasn’t brought up the&hellip;</span></p>
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				<title>hardtrith posted an update: We had a deal… no strings attached. That was the whole [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/927/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2025 09:47:07 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We had a deal… no strings attached. That was the whole point with Afia. Just fun, no<br />
drama, no expectations. It worked for months. She’d call, I’d show up, and we’d<br />
leave it at that. Then I met Ama. She wasn’t like Afia. She’s soft, caring, the kind of girl you want to bring home to your family. So, when things got serious with Ama, I cut it&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-927"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/927/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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				<title>rich posted an update: My Nigerian friend sent this to our group chat. Lemme [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/875/</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 09 Feb 2025 07:26:07 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My Nigerian friend sent this to our group chat. Lemme know your thoughts.</p>
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<p>  So, my mom threw this big family party for my dad&#8217;s 50th birthday last weekend. Everyone<br />
was there. cousins, uncles, the whole crew. It was going okay until my aunt, who&#8217;s always<br />
been a little dramatic, decided to &#8216;propose a toast.&#8221;.<br />
She got up, clinking her glass,&hellip;</p>
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				<title>Ada posted an update: My best friend and I have been close since senior [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/856/</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 09 Feb 2025 06:29:18 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My best friend and I have been close since senior high school. She’s the kind of person who<br />
knows all my secrets, including the fact that I’ve been saving up to move out and start fresh<br />
in Takoradi. It’s been my dream for years, and she’s always hyped me up about it.<br />
Well, last week, she casually dropped into conversation that she’s moving&hellip;</p>
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				<title>Nun posted an update: I hit rock bottom one night, lying on the cold, hard [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/854/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 08 Feb 2025 09:04:42 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hit rock bottom one night, lying on the cold, hard ground, realizing how precious life is and how much I was wasting it. That moment was a wake-up call, a turning point. I&#8217;m ready to face my demons and heal from all the pain. I&#8217;m reaching out for help before my life goes down the drain. So here I am, with open arms, confessing my struggles&hellip;</p>
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				<title>Munirq posted an update:  I thought I had it under control, just a few drinks [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/852/</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 08 Feb 2025 08:53:32 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> I thought I had it under control, just a few drinks to unwind after a long day. But now, I can&#8217;t go a single day without it. My hands shake, my thoughts are scattered, and the bottle has become my constant companion. My friends see me laughing, having fun, but they don&#8217;t understand the turmoil inside. Deep within, I&#8217;m screaming for help,&hellip;</p>
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				<title>ANNA_IN_HIDING posted an update: This guy and I had been chatting on Instagram for weeks. [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/850/</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 07 Feb 2025 19:11:10 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This guy and I had been chatting on Instagram for weeks. He was sweet, always hyping me up in my DMs, and seemed like the kind of guy who’d take you seriously. One evening, he invited me over to his place in Labone, saying he wanted to cook for me. I was impressed cuz most guys would just suggest takeout. <span>When I got there, the dinner was&hellip;</span></p>
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				<title>Pokuaa posted an update: Every Sunday, I’m supposed to go to church with my aunt. [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/849/</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 07 Feb 2025 13:34:59 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every Sunday, I’m supposed to go to church with my aunt. She’s a devout Christian and insists that everyone in the house goes to service. The thing is, I haven’t actually been to church in months. Instead, I use that time to hang out with friends at East Legon. We drink, eat, and talk until it’s time to go home.</p>
<p>When I get back, I always&hellip;</p>
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				<title>Kofi posted an update: My name is Emmanuel, and I'm a 25-year-old graduate [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/841/</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2025 23:20:05 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My name is Emmanuel, and I&#8217;m a 25-year-old graduate from UESD, Somanya. I&#8217;m currently living the Accra. Growing up, I was always an excellent student and a bit of a loner. But when I got to university, everything changed.<br />
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I was introduced to a new world of freedom and experimentation. At first, it was just about having fun and trying new&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-841"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/841/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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				<title>Mina posted an update: My man and I were very close. Some people thought we [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/838/</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2025 22:33:03 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My man and I were very close. Some people thought we were brother and sister because people claim we look alike. you know when you walk with someone for too long sometimes you unconsciously copy certain mannerisms and might be to look alike. We were cool, until I got a job offer in another country and distance stood between us.</p>
<p>At first, we made&hellip;</p>
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				<title>Abigail posted an update: Hm. I don’t even know how it happened. One minute, he was [&#133;]</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2025 22:22:25 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hm. I don’t even know how it happened. One minute, he was my best friend, the person I could complain to about anything like lecturers, life, you name it and the next, he was the only thing I could think about. Ei? </p>
<p>We were walking back from class, laughing about how our lecturer thought he was some kind of stand-up comedian. He nudged me with&hellip;</p>
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				<title>Favour posted an update: My husband and I have been married for 2yrs now. We [&#133;]</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2025 21:45:09 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband and I have been married for 2yrs now. We dated for 2yrs before we finally got married.<br />
We developed what we call a tradition for the family where we eat at Starbite restaurant at East Legon every Sunday evening. This was just to release burdens and have a taste of food outside.<br />
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				<title>Queen101 posted an update: I've been with my boyfriend for three years, but I [&#133;]</title>
				<link>https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/823/</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2025 08:13:24 +0000</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been with my boyfriend for three years, but I still struggle to trust him. He cheated on me in the past, and although he&#8217;s apologized and promised to change, I find it hard to shake off the feeling that he&#8217;ll hurt me again. I always feel insecure whenever he is using his phone and smiling and laughing. Due to this I am always checking&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-823"><a href="https://secretmemoir.com/community-feed/p/823/" rel="nofollow"> Read more</a></span></p>
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