I have been living with HIV for a year now. I didn’t know I had it after I went for check up the night after our honeymoon. Apparently, my husband is a patient and decided to hid it from me. After I found out I was HIV positive, I was broken for days, couldn’t eat nor sleep. My husband begged for forgiveness for days, I love him, but it wasn’t easy for me. During our courtship period, I tried having sex with him, buh he refused, I thought he was impotent to be honest, little did I know he had HIV and wanted to keep it a secret till we get married.
It’s been a year since we got married and we have no kids, we have been having sex but with protection on, preventing us from having children. His family is always putting pressure on me to get them a child. The pressure is becoming too much and I don’t know what to do. I want to tell them what’s actually going on, but I don’t want to wash my dirty clothes outside. My husband seems not to be bothered and always brushes it off when I tell him to find a solution to the problem. I don’t know what to do anymore. Also, I slept with his elder brother unprotected. I did that intentionally.