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BaldAccountant posted an update: I have a terrible job. Last night I slept at 3 am […]

Sat, 03 May 2025 09:39:50 +0000

I have a terrible job. Last night I slept at 3 am just because I was trying to resolve errors in the my office financial data. Then my boss calls asking why I was late to work the following day. It sometimes feels like the public office I work at is my personal property. So much is demanded of me, I hate my job and that hatred has caused me…

Fda posted an update: Why is that Iin Ghana, parents are always right? Like […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 12:17:46 +0000

Why is that Iin Ghana, parents are always right? Like why? So we the kids no, we don’t have feelings or what? So can’t my parent apologize when they hurt my feelings and stuff? It’s so wrong. I thi k parents should understand that they are human and can do wrong. They have to teach us better and they are not. How hard is it to say sorry to… Read more

Fddfd posted an update: My parents are preparing an arranged marriage for me and […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 12:16:08 +0000

My parents are preparing an arranged marriage for me and I don’t feel comfortable at all. Who does that in this age? I understand the girl is from a rich home, hee father is one of these popular MPs and all but I feel it’s so wrong. I feel my dad just want to build his connections and stuff and is using me to get what he want. I really want… Read more

Opoku posted an update: I'm addicted to porn. I want to stop anyone to help? […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 12:14:11 +0000

I’m addicted to porn. I want to stop anyone to help? It’s really shameful now. Have been watching since class 6 and I’m in university second year. I really want to stop watching it. Please help me out.

Mary posted an update: So all of you here posting these unholy things, how do […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 12:12:13 +0000

So all of you here posting these unholy things, how do you feel? In fact, some of you are very wicked and may God judge you all. Yh, you will think I’m being bitter or something, but some of you are really bad people, God judge you all according to your deeds. Burn in hell

Younglad posted an update: As a Christian, I want to advice my fellow Christians […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 12:10:29 +0000

As a Christian, I want to advice my fellow Christians never to have sex before marriage. I k ow it sounds someway but it’s really true. Sex ruins everything and you can’t afford to make such a huge mistake. I made such a mistake and I wish I never did it. The guilt is everything and as youth pastor in church, it hurts even more. Please and… Read more

Kiddie posted an update: So why does tribalism prevail in our society like that? […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 12:08:27 +0000

So why does tribalism prevail in our society like that? My dad just told me I shouldn’t marry an Ewe lady and I just don’t understand. My gf is Ewe and we’ve dated for 4 years now. I don’t know what to tell her. I really love her but I can’t just go against my dad’s words. My gf can leave me at anytime but my parents will not. I’m really… Read more

Lady4 posted an update: I'm pregnant for 5 months now and I don't know who's […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 12:06:40 +0000

I’m pregnant for 5 months now and I don’t know who’s the father. I had sex with 3 guys the same day and I am so confused now. My bf invited me to his house one time.e when he was away. Got to his place, met his father and we eventually had sex before he came home. When he arrived we spent some time together and had sex before I left for my… Read more

Lola posted an update: I have the best man in the world. This guy is so […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 12:04:58 +0000

I have the best man in the world. This guy is so perfect, gentle and loves me so much. I don’t need to do much, he understands, he cares and he’s ready to do anything for me. Most people share the bad experiences they get in relationships, but I’m here to tell you guys real love exist. Give yourself time and the right person will come your… Read more

burnd posted an update: I don't know but I just want to encourage everyone […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 11:58:29 +0000

I don’t know but I just want to encourage everyone here okay. Be patient and let things work out. One person said he was anxious about life. Lemme tell you, relax and everything will be fine. I was once in your position, was really nervous and anxious yh, buh 5 years later, I’m doing perfectly well. You guys should relax and don’t put so… Read more

cobyman posted an update: I want a sugar mommy. I need money and I work hard but […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 11:55:32 +0000

I want a sugar mommy. I need money and I work hard but it’s not enough. I need a sugar mommy to feed me and spend on me. I will do anything and everything for her. If you have links, kindly let me know. I’m really serious about it. Thank you.

Lynda posted an update: Men don't know what they want seriously. I just don't […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 07:57:25 +0000

Men don’t know what they want seriously. I just don’t care what anyone says but it’s really true. How can you cheat on me with my student? Like a 17 year old girl oo. What’s even attractive about her? I’m well built, I have my own job, my car, and everything, yet he went out to cheat on me with a 16 year old girl. I don’t even know how to… Read more

Jaysz posted an update: On our first date, it's 50/50. You don't expect me to […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 07:55:20 +0000

On our first date, it’s 50/50. You don’t expect me to buy all your food for you when we are in this together. We split the bills and have fun together. We’re all interested in each other and we should show by being responsible. If you like me, prove it amd I will also prove my love to you. We share the bills amd that gives me some belive that… Read more

ada12 posted an update: I have been having this urge for sex for a long time. I'm […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 07:51:53 +0000

I have been having this urge for sex for a long time. I’m a virgin even though I’m in the last year of my university. The thing is I don’t know how to tell girls I want to have sex with them. I just want someone who will be a friend and just have sex with me. I know it’s kind of messed up but it’s true. I don’t want to go for prostitutes too, I… Read more

sharen posted an update: I read here sometime ago about someone who said he/she […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 07:50:07 +0000

I read here sometime ago about someone who said he/she feels empty. Like it’s so real yh amd I feel empty. I don’t know what’s going on but I don’t think this thing called love is for me. Every person I really love just wants to be friends or is not even interested in me. I feel lonely at times and cry all night. I think I’m depressed, but… Read more

furbs posted an update: But seriously our leaders are failing us paa o. […]

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 07:47:26 +0000

But seriously our leaders are failing us paa o. Can’t imagine how government hospitals have no beds and are in poor conditions. Yet, these people travel abroad to get treated. Why can’t they just fix these hospitals for the ordinary person to have access to quality health care? I just don’t get it, and it’s so sad because they will always… Read more

zackjr posted an update: These pastors are really bad people. A pastor just duped […]

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 15:16:46 +0000

These pastors are really bad people. A pastor just duped my cousin and even had sex with her. He told her he could help her get into a big company. Mind you the pastor is really famous yh, so my cousin believed him. Not knowing he just wanted to have his way with her and dupe her of some 10,000 Ghana cedis. These people are making this… Read more

sam12 posted an update: In Ghana everything is bribe oo chaley. MA paddy who […]

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 15:15:05 +0000

In Ghana everything is bribe oo chaley. MA paddy who isn’t qualified for police just got into the army secof ein poppy rich. Like they had to pay millions of cedis before he was considered. If you don’t have money, you can’t even be successful in Ghana like eii. He told me the plans his father had for him, and now that he is in the military,… Read more

kaybe posted an update: I don't care what anyone says, but a girl who […]

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 15:13:06 +0000

I don’t care what anyone says, but a girl who loves football is a turn off for me. Like why should you like football? Why should you be able to talk to other guys about football? And I strongly believe most of them like football because of a guy they once love. I don’t like that at all. No matter what happens, you shouldn’t like football. It’s… Read more

naana3 posted an update: This guy has been chasing me for a year now and I just […]

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 15:11:29 +0000

This guy has been chasing me for a year now and I just feel sorry for him. Is not that I don’t like him oo but I have AIDS and I don’t want him to get it. I’m treating it though but I just want him to stay away from me. He’s good looking and all but I can’t just allow him. I even told him I have a bf, yet he’s still chasing me. I really want… Read more

abena1 posted an update: So there is this guy in mu church I really like. But I […]

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 15:06:40 +0000

So there is this guy in mu church I really like. But I feel he’s old. I’m just 14 and he’s around 23. I like him a lot but I feel he has a gf and won’t like me back. Though he has told.me he’s single, I feel he’s lying or something. We decided to be close friends and all but I really like him. He’s a virgin, lol, which is a little bit… Read more

baddie posted an update: Do all of you have one annoying roommate? This girl […]

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 23:26:13 +0000

Do all of you have one annoying roommate? This girl is annoying. She doesn’t sweep, clean and do other things in the room. I do all of that and on top of it too she doesn’t even cook. She brings friends to the room and make all sort of noise. I just can’t take it anymore. Cab you imagine I found her used pad under her bed when I was sweeping… Read more

luck posted an update: My parents do not want me to marry an SDA person. My girl […]

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 23:22:37 +0000

My parents do not want me to marry an SDA person. My girl is SDA and I really love her. I’m planning to take her to my parents home and all but she is refusing to go after I asked her to lie about the church she goes to. I don’t know ow why it’s difficult for her to do so. I belive if she loves me, she should be able to work this out with me.… Read more

girlss posted an update: Is it normal for you to be sad always? I know we all get […]

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 23:20:11 +0000

Is it normal for you to be sad always? I know we all get sad sometimes, but is it normal to be sad and feel empty almost everyday. I do have a girl and a wonderful family. But I feel empty and sad most times. Is like I feel no one lives me enough and it kinda hurt. I love my girl and all but, she’s not loving me in the way I want her to. She… Read more

Opokuas posted an update: Who also thinks our generation is messed up big […]

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 23:17:04 +0000

Who also thinks our generation is messed up big time? Seriously, I don’t even feel like getting married or something because of what I see on the internet and stuff. Eii, this generation is someway and far gone and I feel we are really messed up. I don’t know what to think again and seriously no one is even going to convince me anymore.… Read more

lefla posted an update: I don't know but I'm a little bit anxious about life. […]

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 18:46:44 +0000

I don’t know but I’m a little bit anxious about life. So I’m doing my NSS in one company here in Accra and I know they will not pick me after the service and all which has left me scared a little. I feel so uncertain about my life and future. Is like I don’t know what I want to do anymore. I read History in the university but seriously I…

kofibee posted an update: There is this girl in my church I really like. She is […]

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 18:43:52 +0000

There is this girl in my church I really like. She is calm, sweet, God fearing and very beautiful. The promise, she comes from a rich home and I don’t, which is scaring me. I know I shouldn’t be saying that though but I don’t think her family will accept a masion. She is a lecturer at one private university in the country. Though we are… Read more

harryking posted an update: So my dad is a pastor but I have lost trust in him. I […]

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 18:41:16 +0000

So my dad is a pastor but I have lost trust in him. I found some porn videos on his phone some time ago. I mean, why should a pastor have such videos on his phone. Someone who preaches against it and all. Like I don’t get it. I’m a girl and although I like porn, I didn’t expect it to be on my dad’s phone. I jut can’t imagine the kind of stuff he… Read more

samfine posted an update: So after the incident on campus, my dad is asking me to […]

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 18:37:32 +0000

So after the incident on campus, my dad is asking me to stop dating my SHS boyfriend. We haven’t had any quarrel or anything of that sort, but my dad wants me to stop dating my boyfriend. I mean, I don’t think I should do things based on what happened in someone’s else’s relationship. I love my guy and I just don’t know what to do. We’re in… Read more

lovelyme posted an update: Hear me out, I don't know if this feels right. I have […]

Sun, 23 Mar 2025 03:03:17 +0000

Hear me out, I don’t know if this feels right. I have been having an affair with my sister’s husband for some months now. He approached me first. At the beginning I wasn’t comfortable with it, but seeing how my sister treats her, I had no choice but to give in. This man works so hard to provide for my sister and his little boy, yet, my… Read more

CINDYKAY posted an update: My best friend has been crushing on this guy for months […]

Sat, 22 Mar 2025 14:33:53 +0000

My best friend has been crushing on this guy for months now. She talks about him all the time, saying how he’s her dream man and how she plans to shoot her shot. The problem is, I know him too well. Back in SHS, we had a thing (nothing serious), but enough for me to know he’s not the great guy she thinks he is.

I’ve tried hinting that maybe…

Pokuaa posted an update: Every Sunday, I’m supposed to go to church with my aunt. […]

Sat, 22 Mar 2025 14:22:59 +0000

Every Sunday, I’m supposed to go to church with my aunt. She’s a devout Christian and insists that everyone in the house goes to service. The thing is, I haven’t actually been to church in months. Instead, I use that time to hang out with friends at East Legon. We drink, eat, and talk until it’s time to go home.

When I get back, I always…

ANNA_IN_HIDING posted an update: Last year, I borrowed GHS 500 from a friend. I told her […]

Sat, 22 Mar 2025 10:40:49 +0000

Last year, I borrowed GHS 500 from a friend. I told her it was for my mum’s medical bills, but the truth is, I used the money to buy a dress and shoes for a party. The outfit was stunning, and I got so many compliments that night, but I couldn’t fully enjoy myself knowing I’d lied to get it. Since then, my friend hasn’t brought up the…

bigbruce posted an update: I have been masturbating for 12 years now. Yh I know, but […]

Sat, 22 Mar 2025 09:56:36 +0000

I have been masturbating for 12 years now. Yh I know, but I seem not to know how to stop it. It started when I found porn on my dad’s phone. I enjoyed watching it though and started stroking myself. It happened e when I was in class 4 and now I’m in my final year of University. It’s embarrassing but I enjoy it a lot. I’m a Christian by the way… Read more

hardtrith posted an update: We had a deal… no strings attached. That was the whole […]

Sat, 22 Mar 2025 09:47:07 +0000

We had a deal… no strings attached. That was the whole point with Afia. Just fun, no
drama, no expectations. It worked for months. She’d call, I’d show up, and we’d
leave it at that. Then I met Ama. She wasn’t like Afia. She’s soft, caring, the kind of girl you want to bring home to your family. So, when things got serious with Ama, I cut it… Read more

Nun posted an update: 1) I stood at the altar, a vision in white, my heart full […]

Sat, 22 Feb 2025 07:19:34 +0000

1) I stood at the altar, a vision in white, my heart full of love and my future so bright. I felt invincible, wrapped in the warmth of my love for my partner. But as the years passed by, I started to see that our marriage was not all it was meant to be. We fought and we argued, as any couple would, but the love that we shared just wasn’t as…

rich posted an update: My Nigerian friend sent this to our group chat. Lemme […]

Sun, 09 Feb 2025 07:26:07 +0000

My Nigerian friend sent this to our group chat. Lemme know your thoughts.

So, my mom threw this big family party for my dad’s 50th birthday last weekend. Everyone
was there. cousins, uncles, the whole crew. It was going okay until my aunt, who’s always
been a little dramatic, decided to ‘propose a toast.”.
She got up, clinking her glass,…

Lynne posted an update: You know that saying, ‘Friends are the family you […]

Sun, 09 Feb 2025 07:21:21 +0000

You know that saying, ‘Friends are the family you choose’? Well, I chose wrong. My best
friend and I have been inseparable for ten years. We’ve been through everything together.
She’s the one person I thought I could always trust.
But last week, I found out she was dating my ex. Not just any ex… the one who cheated on
me, broke my heart,…

akyere posted an update: My sister’s getting married in two months, right? And […]

Sun, 09 Feb 2025 07:08:21 +0000

My sister’s getting married in two months, right? And I’ve been her go-to for everything…
dress shopping, vendors and co. She keeps saying how much she appreciates me and how
I’m the ‘only person she can truly trust.’ Sweet, right?
Well, yesterday, I was scrolling through her Pinterest boards to get ideas for her bachelorette
party…

jaden posted an update: We had a deal… no strings attached. That was the whole […]

Sun, 09 Feb 2025 06:43:47 +0000

We had a deal… no strings attached. That was the whole point with Afia. Just fun, no
drama, no expectations. It worked for months. She’d call, I’d show up, and we’d
leave it at that.
Then I met Ama. She wasn’t like Afia. She’s soft, caring, the kind of girl you want to
bring home to your family. So, when things got serious with Ama, I…

Ada posted an update: My best friend and I have been close since senior […]

Sun, 09 Feb 2025 06:29:18 +0000

My best friend and I have been close since senior high school. She’s the kind of person who
knows all my secrets, including the fact that I’ve been saving up to move out and start fresh
in Takoradi. It’s been my dream for years, and she’s always hyped me up about it.
Well, last week, she casually dropped into conversation that she’s moving…

Nun posted an update: I hit rock bottom one night, lying on the cold, hard […]

Sat, 08 Feb 2025 09:04:42 +0000

I hit rock bottom one night, lying on the cold, hard ground, realizing how precious life is and how much I was wasting it. That moment was a wake-up call, a turning point. I’m ready to face my demons and heal from all the pain. I’m reaching out for help before my life goes down the drain. So here I am, with open arms, confessing my struggles…

Pun posted an update: I come from a family of drinkers; it's all I've […]

Sat, 08 Feb 2025 08:59:13 +0000

I come from a family of drinkers; it’s all I’ve ever known. Alcohol has been a constant presence in my life, shaping my actions and decisions. But now, I see the damage it’s done, the pain it’s caused. I’ve hurt the ones I love with my words, my actions, and my drunkenness. The guilt weighs heavily on my heart, and I can’t bear the thought… Read more

Munirq posted an update: I thought I had it under control, just a few drinks […]

Sat, 08 Feb 2025 08:53:32 +0000

I thought I had it under control, just a few drinks to unwind after a long day. But now, I can’t go a single day without it. My hands shake, my thoughts are scattered, and the bottle has become my constant companion. My friends see me laughing, having fun, but they don’t understand the turmoil inside. Deep within, I’m screaming for help,…

Oliv posted an update: I used to be a social drinker, enjoying a drink or two […]

Sat, 08 Feb 2025 08:27:17 +0000

I used to be a social drinker, enjoying a drink or two with friends. But somewhere along the line, I lost control. Now, I drink alone, hidden in the shadows, until my body can’t take it anymore. I’ve been to rehab, tried to break free, but I always fall back into the same trap. The fear of losing my life to this addiction haunts me every day.… Read more

ANNA_IN_HIDING posted an update: This guy and I had been chatting on Instagram for weeks. […]

Fri, 07 Feb 2025 19:11:10 +0000

This guy and I had been chatting on Instagram for weeks. He was sweet, always hyping me up in my DMs, and seemed like the kind of guy who’d take you seriously. One evening, he invited me over to his place in Labone, saying he wanted to cook for me. I was impressed cuz most guys would just suggest takeout. When I got there, the dinner was…

Pokuaa posted an update: Every Sunday, I’m supposed to go to church with my aunt. […]

Fri, 07 Feb 2025 13:34:59 +0000

When I get back, I always…

CINDYKAY posted an update: There’s this guy on campus who’s practically a […]

Fri, 07 Feb 2025 09:53:58 +0000

There’s this guy on campus who’s practically a celebrity. He’s tall, good looking, and always hanging out at the basketball court. Every time I pass by, I can’t help but notice how all the girls fawn over him. During hall week, there was a bonfire night, and I spotted him in the crowd. For the first time, he wasn’t surrounded by people, so I…

StoryTeller87 posted an update: @There’s something unequivocally difficult about mourning […]

Mon, 03 Feb 2025 21:48:09 +0000

@There’s something unequivocally difficult about mourning the loss of a parent that’s still alive. It’s a foreign and restless void that never really receives the closure it needs. It’s a constant and resonating voice in the back of your mind that tells you you’re different. Your family is different. It tells you you’re not good enough and…